{"id":11635,"date":"2026-06-22T14:20:13","date_gmt":"2026-06-22T14:20:13","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/damesnet.com\/?p=11635"},"modified":"2026-06-22T14:20:14","modified_gmt":"2026-06-22T14:20:14","slug":"wish-you-were-here","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/damesnet.com\/?p=11635","title":{"rendered":"Wish you were here"},"content":{"rendered":"<div class=\"wp-block-image\">\n<figure class=\"alignleft size-medium\"><a href=\"https:\/\/damesnet.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/06\/20260622_150736-scaled-e1782137622429.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"300\" height=\"225\" src=\"https:\/\/damesnet.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/06\/20260622_150736-scaled-e1782137622429-300x225.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-11641\" srcset=\"https:\/\/damesnet.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/06\/20260622_150736-scaled-e1782137622429-300x225.jpg 300w, https:\/\/damesnet.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/06\/20260622_150736-scaled-e1782137622429-1024x768.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/damesnet.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/06\/20260622_150736-scaled-e1782137622429-768x576.jpg 768w, https:\/\/damesnet.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/06\/20260622_150736-scaled-e1782137622429-600x450.jpg 600w, https:\/\/damesnet.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/06\/20260622_150736-scaled-e1782137622429-1536x1152.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/damesnet.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/06\/20260622_150736-scaled-e1782137622429-2048x1536.jpg 2048w, https:\/\/damesnet.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/06\/20260622_150736-scaled-e1782137622429-1320x990.jpg 1320w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/a><figcaption class=\"wp-element-caption\">Postcard from Rome\/damesnet<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<\/div>\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">When did you last send a postcard? Is it something you have never done, always do, or perhaps like the idea of doing but can\u2019t really be bothered? Our family loves a postcard.&nbsp; I grew up with them; my parents were away one time (somehow my brother and I weren\u2019t with them) and they sent a card addressed to \u2018Monkey and Sausage\u2019.&nbsp; We were invited in the card to guess which was who. You can imagine the argument, and I think my father felt a twinge of regret on his return.<\/p>\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\">\n<figure class=\"alignright size-medium\"><a href=\"https:\/\/damesnet.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/06\/20260622_150751-scaled-e1782137665283.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"225\" height=\"300\" src=\"https:\/\/damesnet.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/06\/20260622_150751-scaled-e1782137665283-225x300.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-11642\" srcset=\"https:\/\/damesnet.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/06\/20260622_150751-scaled-e1782137665283-225x300.jpg 225w, https:\/\/damesnet.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/06\/20260622_150751-scaled-e1782137665283-768x1024.jpg 768w, https:\/\/damesnet.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/06\/20260622_150751-scaled-e1782137665283-600x800.jpg 600w, https:\/\/damesnet.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/06\/20260622_150751-scaled-e1782137665283-1152x1536.jpg 1152w, https:\/\/damesnet.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/06\/20260622_150751-scaled-e1782137665283-1536x2048.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/damesnet.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/06\/20260622_150751-scaled-e1782137665283-1320x1760.jpg 1320w, https:\/\/damesnet.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/06\/20260622_150751-scaled-e1782137665283.jpg 1920w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 225px) 100vw, 225px\" \/><\/a><figcaption class=\"wp-element-caption\">Postcard from Croatia\/damesnet<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<\/div>\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">But I inherited the habit and can\u2019t step beyond Brighton without heading for the nearest shop to buy a postcard or two to send to my nearest and dearest, and they reciprocate. &nbsp;Unfortunately, I have begun to encounter a problem.&nbsp; Things ain\u2019t what they used to be in the world of postcards.&nbsp; It seems they may be a dying art, or at least the practice of sending them is on the wane.&nbsp; Whatever the reason, postcards are becoming harder to find; fewer shops sell them and those that do have a much more limited range than used to be.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">This succinct form of communication celebrated its 150<sup>th<\/sup> birthday in 2020. The first cards were issued by Austria-Hungary in 1869. They were produced in two languages \u2013 German and Hungarian \u2013 and were extremely popular.&nbsp; A year later the idea was brought to Britain and it met with equal success. &nbsp;In 1871 around 75 million postcards were sent in Britain and volumes increased vastly to over 800 million a year by the end of King Edward VII\u2019s reign in 1910. They were cheap, quick to write, and with several collections and deliveries each day, a speedy and efficient way to keep in touch.<\/p>\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\">\n<figure class=\"alignleft size-medium\"><a href=\"https:\/\/damesnet.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/06\/20260622_150716-scaled-e1782137703306.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"300\" height=\"225\" src=\"https:\/\/damesnet.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/06\/20260622_150716-scaled-e1782137703306-300x225.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-11643\" srcset=\"https:\/\/damesnet.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/06\/20260622_150716-scaled-e1782137703306-300x225.jpg 300w, https:\/\/damesnet.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/06\/20260622_150716-scaled-e1782137703306-1024x768.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/damesnet.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/06\/20260622_150716-scaled-e1782137703306-768x576.jpg 768w, https:\/\/damesnet.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/06\/20260622_150716-scaled-e1782137703306-600x450.jpg 600w, https:\/\/damesnet.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/06\/20260622_150716-scaled-e1782137703306-1536x1152.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/damesnet.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/06\/20260622_150716-scaled-e1782137703306-2048x1536.jpg 2048w, https:\/\/damesnet.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/06\/20260622_150716-scaled-e1782137703306-1320x990.jpg 1320w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/a><figcaption class=\"wp-element-caption\">Postcard from Arles\/damesnet<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<\/div>\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Would that it worked so well nowadays\u2026last year we were touring a part of northern Italy and while in Vicenza I realised that I had not yet bought a postcard, let alone a stamp. Finding some suitable postcards was relatively easy, but buying stamps was a different matter altogether.&nbsp; The shop assistant offered me orange stamps from a private company. Caveat emptor.&nbsp; If I wanted my cards bought and sent in May to arrive by Christmas it would have been perfect, but members of the family have already been caught by this scam.&nbsp; I politely refused and was informed that I would have to go to the Ufficio Postale.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\">\n<figure class=\"alignright size-medium\"><a href=\"https:\/\/damesnet.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/06\/20260622_150702-scaled-e1782137529871.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"300\" height=\"225\" src=\"https:\/\/damesnet.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/06\/20260622_150702-scaled-e1782137529871-300x225.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-11640\" srcset=\"https:\/\/damesnet.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/06\/20260622_150702-scaled-e1782137529871-300x225.jpg 300w, https:\/\/damesnet.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/06\/20260622_150702-scaled-e1782137529871-1024x768.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/damesnet.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/06\/20260622_150702-scaled-e1782137529871-768x576.jpg 768w, https:\/\/damesnet.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/06\/20260622_150702-scaled-e1782137529871-600x450.jpg 600w, https:\/\/damesnet.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/06\/20260622_150702-scaled-e1782137529871-1536x1152.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/damesnet.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/06\/20260622_150702-scaled-e1782137529871-2048x1536.jpg 2048w, https:\/\/damesnet.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/06\/20260622_150702-scaled-e1782137529871-1320x990.jpg 1320w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/a><figcaption class=\"wp-element-caption\">Postcard from La Alhambra\/damesnet<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<\/div>\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">We trailed around town till we found the post office, to discover that there was a ticketed queueing system.&nbsp; People were getting their pensions, enquiring about their savings accounts, and every time I got closer the numbering seemed to change and I had not moved along at all. After some time I took a deep breath and dashed up to one of the counters as someone was moving away.&nbsp; In my best Italian (I had had plenty of time to perfect my sentence) I explained that I only wanted to buy a few stamps and while I knew that this was a minor request I would be extremely grateful if\u2026.Reader, she was kind to me and sold them to me on the spot.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">I end with a happier experience. We went to Paris for the weekend and I found postcards by a metro station and bought stamps in two minutes at La Poste. &nbsp;We got to Gare du Nord to return home, and there was a yellow post box in the heart of the station. Job done.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p> If I wanted my cards bought and sent in May to arrive by Christmas it would have been perfect<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":6,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[634,316,527,67,182,55],"tags":[76,407,80,97],"class_list":["post-11635","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-communications","category-europe","category-family","category-humour","category-leisure-activities","category-living-today","tag-blog","tag-communications","tag-humour","tag-living-today"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/damesnet.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/11635","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/damesnet.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/damesnet.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/damesnet.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/6"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/damesnet.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=11635"}],"version-history":[{"count":6,"href":"https:\/\/damesnet.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/11635\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":11647,"href":"https:\/\/damesnet.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/11635\/revisions\/11647"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/damesnet.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=11635"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/damesnet.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=11635"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/damesnet.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=11635"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}